| In order to grow, to travel new roads, people need to have a willingness to take risks, to confront the unknown, and to accept the possibility that they may 'fail' at first. How we see ourselves as we try a new way of being is essential to our ability to grow. Do we perceive ourselves as quick and curious? If so, then we tend to take more chances and to be more open to unfamiliar experiences. Do we think we're shy and indecisive? Then our sense of timidity can cause us to hesitate, to move slowly, and not to take a step until we know the ground is safe. Do we think we're slow to adapt to change or that we're not smart enough to cope with a new challenge? Then we are likely to take a more passive role or not try at all. These feelings of insecurity and self-doubt are both unavoidable and necessary if we are to change and grow. If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts, if we protect ourselves too much, then we cease to grow. We become trapped inside a shell of our own making. | |
| 为了成长，为了探索新路，人们需要乐意去冒险，去勇敢面对未知事物，去接受他们也许会一开始就“失败”的可能性。当我们尝试一种新的生存方式时，我们如何看待自己对我们的成长的能力至关重要。我们认为自己敏捷、有好奇心吗？如果是的话，那我们往往会抓住更多的机会，更愿意去体验不熟悉的事情。我们认为自己腼腆、优柔寡断吗？那我们的羞怯感会使我们犹豫不决、行动缓慢，不到万无一失绝不迈步。我们认为自己适应变化很慢且对付新挑战也不够机敏吗？那么我们极可能会处事较被动或者根本就不尝试。 我们若想改变自己、有所成长，这些不安全感和自我怀疑既无法避免也很有必要。如果我们不去面对并克服这些内心的恐惧和疑惑，如果我们过多地保护自己，那我们就一定会停止成长。我们会陷进自己营造的牢笼里面。 |
| In order to grow, to travel new roads, people need to have a willingness to take risks, to confront the unknown, and to accept the possibility that they may ' fail' at first. How we see ourselves as we try a new way of being is essential to our ability to grow. Do we perceive ourselves as quick and curious? If so, then we tend to take more chances and to be more open to unfamiliar experiences. Do we think we' re shy and indecisive? Then our sense of timidity can cause us to hesitate, to move slowly, and not to take a step until we know the ground is safe. Do we think we' re slow to adapt to change or that we' re not smart enough to cope with a new challenge? Then we are likely to take a more passive role or not try at all. These feelings of insecurity and selfdoubt are both unavoidable and necessary if we are to change and grow. If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts, if we protect ourselves too much, then we cease to grow. We become trapped inside a shell of our own making. | |
| wei le cheng zhang, wei le tan suo xin lu, ren men xu yao le yi qu mao xian, qu yong gan mian dui wei zhi shi wu, qu jie shou ta men ye xu hui yi kai shi jiu" shi bai" de ke neng xing. dang wo men chang shi yi zhong xin de sheng cun fang shi shi, wo men ru he kan dai zi ji dui wo men de cheng zhang de neng li zhi guan zhong yao. wo men ren wei zi ji min jie you hao qi xin ma? ru guo shi de hua, na wo men wang wang hui zhua zhu geng duo de ji hui, geng yuan yi qu ti yan bu shu xi de shi qing. wo men ren wei zi ji mian tian you rou gua duan ma? na wo men de xiu qie gan hui shi wo men you yu bu jue xing dong huan man, bu dao wan wu yi shi jue bu mai bu. wo men ren wei zi ji shi ying bian hua hen man qie dui fu xin tiao zhan ye bu gou ji min ma? na me wo men ji ke neng hui chu shi jiao bei dong huo zhe gen ben jiu bu chang shi. wo men ruo xiang gai bian zi ji you suo cheng zhang, zhei xie bu an quan gan he zi wo huai yi ji wu fa bi mian ye hen you bi yao. ru guo wo men bu qu mian dui bing ke fu zhei xie nei xin de kong ju he yi huo, ru guo wo men guo duo di bao hu zi ji, na wo men jiu yi ding hui ting zhi cheng zhang. wo men hui xian jin zi ji ying zao de lao long li mian. |
| In order to grow, to travel new roads, people need to have a willingness to take risks, to confront the unknown, and to accept the possibility that they may ' fail' at first. How we see ourselves as we try a new way of being is essential to our ability to grow. Do we perceive ourselves as quick and curious? If so, then we tend to take more chances and to be more open to unfamiliar experiences. Do we think we' re shy and indecisive? Then our sense of timidity can cause us to hesitate, to move slowly, and not to take a step until we know the ground is safe. Do we think we' re slow to adapt to change or that we' re not smart enough to cope with a new challenge? Then we are likely to take a more passive role or not try at all. These feelings of insecurity and selfdoubt are both unavoidable and necessary if we are to change and grow. If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts, if we protect ourselves too much, then we cease to grow. We become trapped inside a shell of our own making. | |
| wèi le chéng zhǎng, wèi le tàn suǒ xīn lù, rén men xū yào lè yì qù mào xiǎn, qù yǒng gǎn miàn duì wèi zhī shì wù, qù jiē shòu tā men yě xǔ huì yī kāi shǐ jiù" shī bài" de kě néng xìng. dāng wǒ men cháng shì yī zhǒng xīn de shēng cún fāng shì shí, wǒ men rú hé kàn dài zì jǐ duì wǒ men de chéng zhǎng de néng lì zhì guān zhòng yào. wǒ men rèn wéi zì jǐ mǐn jié yǒu hào qí xīn ma? rú guǒ shì de huà, nà wǒ men wǎng wǎng huì zhuā zhù gèng duō de jī huì, gèng yuàn yì qù tǐ yàn bù shú xī de shì qíng. wǒ men rèn wéi zì jǐ miǎn tiǎn yōu róu guǎ duàn ma? nà wǒ men de xiū qiè gǎn huì shǐ wǒ men yóu yù bù jué xíng dòng huǎn màn, bú dào wàn wú yī shī jué bù mài bù. wǒ men rèn wéi zì jǐ shì yìng biàn huà hěn màn qiě duì fù xīn tiǎo zhàn yě bù gòu jī mǐn ma? nà me wǒ men jí kě néng huì chǔ shì jiào bèi dòng huò zhě gēn běn jiù bù cháng shì. wǒ men ruò xiǎng gǎi biàn zì jǐ yǒu suǒ chéng zhǎng, zhèi xiē bù ān quán gǎn hé zì wǒ huái yí jì wú fǎ bì miǎn yě hěn yǒu bì yào. rú guǒ wǒ men bù qù miàn duì bìng kè fú zhèi xiē nèi xīn de kǒng jù hé yí huò, rú guǒ wǒ men guò duō dì bǎo hù zì jǐ, nà wǒ men jiù yí dìng huì tíng zhǐ chéng zhǎng. wǒ men huì xiàn jìn zì jǐ yíng zào de láo lóng lǐ miàn. |
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