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Song 【听美文故事记六级单词】建议新婚夫妇降低婚姻期望值(2/2)
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Album 听美文故事记六级单词

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In contrast, the researchers say holding a more prosaic view of your loved ones means you are less likely to be disappointed, and therefore more satisfied with your marriage. Writing in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, researchers led by James McNulty, professor of psychology at Ohio University, said, "In contrast to the idea that expectations in the early years of marriage exert main effects on satisfaction, the current findings suggest that the effects of expectations interact with the skills partners bring to their relationships." Previous research found that people tend to select like-minded partners who they believe will be able to maintain a stable relationship. The finding contradicts the old adage that opposites attract. Instead, the US researchers said people looking for long-term relationships should select partners who were similar to themselves, rather than seeking out the highest quality partner available.
相反，研究人员说，用平常心来看待自己的爱人就意味着你不太会失望，所以也就会对婚姻更加满意。 由俄亥俄州立大学心理学教授詹姆斯·迈克纳蒂领导的研究者们在《人格和社会心理学》杂志上发表文章说：“以往的研究表明，结婚最初几年对于婚姻的期望值会对婚姻的满意程度产生重要影响，与此形成鲜明对照的是，目前的研究表明期望值的影响力与伴侣对其婚姻关系所采用的技巧是相互作用的。” 上述研究还发现，人们倾向于选择志趣相投的伴侣，他们相信这样能够维持一份稳定的婚姻。 这一发现与过去所认为的“不同性格相互吸引”的说法截然不同。 取而代之的是，美国的研究人员说，寻找长期婚姻关系的人们应该选择与自己性格相近的伴侣而不是寻求最优秀的伴侣。

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In contrast, the researchers say holding a more prosaic view of your loved ones means you are less likely to be disappointed, and therefore more satisfied with your marriage. Writing in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, researchers led by James McNulty, professor of psychology at Ohio University, said, " In contrast to the idea that expectations in the early years of marriage exert main effects on satisfaction, the current findings suggest that the effects of expectations interact with the skills partners bring to their relationships." Previous research found that people tend to select likeminded partners who they believe will be able to maintain a stable relationship. The finding contradicts the old adage that opposites attract. Instead, the US researchers said people looking for longterm relationships should select partners who were similar to themselves, rather than seeking out the highest quality partner available.
xiāng fǎn, yán jiū rén yuán shuō, yòng píng cháng xīn lái kàn dài zì jǐ de ài rén jiù yì wèi zhe nǐ bù tài huì shī wàng, suǒ yǐ yě jiù huì duì hūn yīn gèng jiā mǎn yì. yóu é hài é zhōu lì dà xué xīn lǐ xué jiào shòu zhān mǔ sī mài kè nà dì lǐng dǎo de yán jiū zhě men zài rén gé hé shè huì xīn lǐ xué zá zhì shàng fā biǎo wén zhāng shuō:" yǐ wǎng de yán jiū biǎo míng, jié hūn zuì chū jǐ nián duì yú hūn yīn de qī wàng zhí huì duì hūn yīn de mǎn yì chéng dù chǎn shēng zhòng yào yǐng xiǎng, yǔ cǐ xíng chéng xiān míng duì zhào de shì, mù qián de yán jiū biǎo míng qī wàng zhí de yǐng xiǎng lì yǔ bàn lǚ duì qí hūn yīn guān xì suǒ cǎi yòng de jì qiǎo shì xiāng hù zuò yòng de." shàng shù yán jiū hái fā xiàn, rén men qīng xiàng yú xuǎn zé zhì qù xiāng tóu de bàn lǚ, tā men xiāng xìn zhè yàng néng gòu wéi chí yī fèn wěn dìng de hūn yīn. zhè yī fà xiàn yǔ guò qù suǒ rèn wéi de" bù tóng xìng gé xiāng hù xī yǐn" de shuō fǎ jié rán bù tóng. qǔ ér dài zhī de shì, měi guó de yán jiū rén yuán shuō, xún zhǎo cháng qī hūn yīn guān xì de rén men yīng gāi xuǎn zé yǔ zì jǐ xìng gé xiāng jìn de bàn lǚ ér bú shì xún qiú zuì yōu xiù de bàn lǚ.