If we had an honest discussion, both of us would know that the other person's heart is in the right place. For example, I would know that you are a kind-hearted and well-meaning person. And, if you are a very good person, I would even say that you have a heart of gold. However, you might have a chan…


如果我们坦诚交流，就会知道对方是个好心人。比方说，我会知道你是个好心好意的人。如果你是一个非常好的人，我甚至会说，你有一颗金子般的心。但是，你也可能会因为听了我的话而改变心意。我们的谈话可能会改变你对某些事物的看法。 但是，我们假设一下，我说的话让你感到非常生气。或者更糟糕的是，你并不赞同或者不了解…